Heartbreak Turned Me to Jesus

Sometime in 2020, I relied deeply on the wisdom, knowledge, and presence of a man — not in a romantic way, but as a very close friend. He was my go-to person, the one I always called when life felt overwhelming.

One day, everything became too heavy, and as usual, I reached for my phone to call him, to rant, cry, and find comfort. But that day, he didn’t answer. He didn’t call back either. I felt crushed. It was as though my world suddenly stopped.

Female Friendships. What’s in it?

For the longest timeeeeee, I believed that being friends with women was a NO GO AREA. In my head, “I don’t have strength for drama at all”. I also thought that I didn’t have it in me to be close friends with anyone. However, lately, I have found myself being around women and being extremely vulnerable with them. 

It is scaryyyyyy cause you are choosing to trust people with thoughts, words, actions, and things that could have stayed in your mind, buttttttttt……I choose!

Grace, Oh, Grace💙

I was a 200 level student in Ambrose Alli University when I first heard the message about grace so clearly and it was taught to me by Reverend Craig on a JCF Sunday in 2021, I think.

Hiding Under the Guise “I Want A Private Life” For here??

There’s more to you and sometimes, that MORE can scare you into silence. My advice, do not be like me and give in. In fact, GIVE OUT. As in, check out of that silence. Silence never helped anyone. Okay?

I have been hiding under a guise for wayyyy too long and I feel like talking about it today. So, shall we? We shall, I guess!

Dear Future Child #1 – I Wish Daddy Was Here Sooner

Dear Child, this is a very vulnerable topic and since I’m posting it in 2023, it means that there will be people that I know reading this now.

I’m a likkle scared but I want this blog to hold stories for you, so, I’ll share it regardless.

Retrospective Much?- Well, I Don’t Know

I can’t tell why I left the one site that brought me clarity and literally changed my life!

Because of blogging, I learned to write out my thoughts. Because of blogging, I learned to interact with people. There are so many reasons why I love blogging, but, that’s not the matter today.

Cat Burns’ Live More Love More Song – What I Think It’s About | Hear Me Out

“If there’s something you wanna do just do it. Don’t let your head stop your heart from moving“

A line from Cat Burns’ song ‘Live More Love More’

When I heard this song on TikTok, I didn’t like it. My thoughts?

It was boring and I thought she could do better writing another song. I was like why should I listen to a song that I have to pick words to sing it?

Before you come for me, wait to read what I think about it now after giving the song much thought

Trips: “God is Your Father”

Growing up, I had no father figure. It was just my mum and there was something she ALWAYS told my brothers and me. She said:

“God is your Father”

You know what, let’s get right into this TRIP from the past

Sin Now, God Always Forgives- The Devil

Satan is very cunning and he has a way of putting it in people’s heads that they have plenty of time to get it right with God, so they can sin now and go back to God later for forgiveness and that God will forgive.

No lies here. God always forgives but here’s something I learnt while studying Genesis chapter 3.

Hi, I’m Sylvia Ideh, let’s get right into it

Let’s Talk About The “Life Of A Fat Funny Friend” Trend On TikTok

I’ll start by saying that I am heartbroken every time I watch a video of this trend. What?! What really is the standard for beauty and who set it, please?

Let’s get right into it, shall we?…